Couples Sex Toys Guide: The Complete Guide to Shared Pleasure
Written by Billy Flynn - Sexual Wellness Team · Last updated: September 27, 2025
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Couples Sex Toys Guide: The Complete Guide to Shared Pleasure
Welcome to our Couples Sex Toys Guide. Exploring sex toys as a couple can transform intimacy, deepen connection, and add excitement to your relationship. From playful foreplay tools to powerful vibrators designed for two, couples sex toys open the door to shared pleasure and discovery.
But where should you start? With so many options — vibrators, strap-ons, sleeves, and more — choosing the right sex toy can feel overwhelming. That’s why we’ve created this guide: to help you understand the different types of couples toys, how they work, and which might be right for you.
Browse our full Couples Sex Toys Collection to start exploring together.
What Are Couples Sex Toys?
Couples sex toys are designed specifically for shared use — enhancing pleasure for both partners simultaneously. They can:
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Increase intimacy and connection.
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Provide new sensations during foreplay or intercourse.
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Help partners explore fantasies safely and comfortably.
Unlike solo toys, these are engineered for dual stimulation or shared control. Examples of these toys can be wearable vibrators, strap-ons, app-controlled toys.
Couples Sex Toys Guide: Types of Couples Sex Toys
Each subsection links to the relevant sub-collection.
Couples Vibrators
Perfect for shared stimulation during intercourse or foreplay. Remote and app-controlled versions make long-distance play possible.
Strap-Ons & Harness Kits
Harnesses paired with dildos for pegging, role reversal, or simply adding variety to sex. Available in beginner-friendly kits and advanced harness systems.
Penis Sleeves & Extenders
Enhance length, girth, or texture for extra stimulation. Great for couples looking to switch up sensations.
Explore Penis Sleeves & Extenders
Ball Stretchers & Rings
Add intensity to male play, boosting arousal and sensation for both partners.
Explore Ball Stretchers & Rings
Position Enhancers & Wedges
Furniture and wedges designed to improve comfort, experiment with angles, and make sex more adventurous.
Explore Position Enhancers & Wedges
Fun & Foreplay Toys
Feathers, ticklers, massage oils, blindfolds, and sensory play toys — simple additions that transform foreplay.
Oral & Sensation Toys
Specialised toys that enhance oral sex or mimic tongue/flicking sensations.
Couples Kits & Bundles
All-in-one starter kits or themed bundles with multiple toys. A great gift option or way to experiment without overthinking.
Explore Couples Kits & Bundles
Couples Sex Toys Guide: How to Choose the Right Toy Together
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Talk openly: Discuss comfort levels, fantasies, and boundaries.
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Start simple: Begin with foreplay toys or vibrators before exploring strap-ons.
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Think comfort: Body-safe materials, adjustable straps, and flexible designs reduce intimidation.
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Match your mood: Want playful exploration? Try foreplay toys. Want intensity? Try strap-ons or vibrating cock rings.
Safety & Comfort Tips
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Always use plenty of body-safe lube (especially with anal or penetration toys).
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Clean toys with Cleaning & Hygiene Products.
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Follow time limits with cock rings, ball stretchers etc.
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Read instructions, especially with harnesses or app-connected toys.
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Start small, communicate often, and progress at your own pace.
Discover more with this great article from Central Outreach Wellness Centre.
Couples Sex Toys FAQs
What are the best couples sex toys for beginners?
Start with couples vibrators or fun foreplay toys. They’re non-intimidating and add excitement without complexity.
Can couples use sex toys during intercourse?
Yes — many vibrators and rings are designed to be worn during penetrative sex.
Are sex toys safe to use as a couple?
Yes, as long as you use body-safe materials, clean your toys, and use lube where necessary.
What’s the best couples toy for long-distance relationships?
App-controlled vibrators are ideal — they let one partner control the toy remotely, even from another city.