Prostate Massagers

Prostate Massagers: How to Use Them Safely & Effectively

Written by · Last updated: September 25, 2025

Prostate Massagers: How to Use Them Safely & Effectively

Prostate stimulation has been called the “next level” of male pleasure — and for good reason. When stimulated, the prostate gland (also called the P-spot) can deliver intense, full-body orgasms that feel different from anything else. Prostate massagers are toys designed specifically for this purpose, with curved or angled tips that hit the gland directly.

If you’re curious about trying one, this guide will walk you through everything you need to know: from choosing the right toy to using it safely, cleaning it, and maximising pleasure.

Browse our full range of Prostate Massagers for beginner to advanced options.

What Is a Prostate Massager?

  • Design: Curved or angled shaft to target the prostate.

  • Types: Non-vibrating, vibrating, and dual-stimulation models.

  • Benefits: Stronger orgasms, heightened arousal, and improved sexual wellness.

Choosing the Right Prostate Massager

  1. For Beginners: Start with slim, non-vibrating silicone toys.

  2. For Extra Stimulation: Try vibrating massagers with multiple speeds/patterns.

  3. For Dual Play: Explore toys that stimulate both the prostate and perineum.

Unsure if you’re ready? Consider starting with Beginner Anal Toys or a slim Anal Probe.

How to Use a Prostate Massager Safely

  • Prep: Empty your bowels beforehand if it makes you feel more comfortable.

  • Relax: Warm up with external anal play or smaller toys.

  • Use Lube Generously: Thick Anal Lube is essential.

  • Insertion: Go slowly, using deep breaths to relax muscles.

  • Positioning: Try lying on your back with knees bent, or on your side with knees pulled up.

  • Duration: Beginners should keep sessions short (10–20 minutes) until more experienced.

For more info, Healthline article about anal sex safety.

Cleaning and Care

  • Wash before and after each use with cleaning & hygiene sprays or warm water and mild soap.

  • Dry completely before storing.

  • Use condoms over porous toys for added hygiene.

Tips for Maximum Pleasure

  • Pair with a cock ring for combined stimulation.

  • Experiment with vibration patterns and intensity.

  • Try edging (delaying orgasm) for stronger climaxes.

  • Combine with partner play for shared exploration.

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Our Final Thoughts on Prostate Massagers

P-Spot massagers are powerful tools for exploring new levels of pleasure, whether you’re a beginner or more experienced. With the right toy, plenty of lube, and a focus on safety, you’ll discover sensations that can transform your sexual experiences.

Shop Prostate Toys today and start exploring P-spot pleasure with confidence.

Prostate Massagers FAQ 

What is a prostate massager?
A toy designed with a curve or angle to target the prostate gland, enhancing orgasms and sexual pleasure.

Are prostate massagers safe for beginners?
Yes — start with slim, non-vibrating silicone designs and use plenty of lube for comfort.

Do prostate massagers always vibrate?
Not always. Some are non-vibrating; others include multiple speeds and patterns for extra intensity.

How do I clean a prostate toy?
Wash with warm water and mild soap or toy cleaner before and after each use.

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