The safest way to begin is with soft, adjustable restraints or a bondage starter kit.

Always agree on a safe word before play, keep safety scissors nearby, and avoid tying anything that restricts breathing or blood flow.

Focus on trust, communication, and comfort first — intensity can come later.

Start with padded cuffs, blindfolds, or bondage tape — all designed to feel secure without discomfort.

Avoid rope until you’ve learned proper tying techniques.

You can explore curated beginner sets in our Bondage for Beginners Collection for an easy introduction.

Clean non-porous items (metal, silicone, coated leather) with toy-safe cleaner or mild soap and warm water.

For genuine leather, use a specialized leather cleaner and let it air dry.

Store your gear in a cool, dry place away from sunlight — ideally in a dedicated pouch to avoid dust and bacteria.

Yes. Practiced safely, bondage encourages communication, trust, and emotional connection.

It’s not about control — it’s about surrendering safely and exploring sensations together.

When both partners feel respected and secure, bondage can deepen intimacy and understanding.