Butt Plugs

Butt Plugs come in different sizes, shapes and materials—and the right choice makes all the difference. If you’re new, start small, choose an anal plug with a flared base, and use plenty of water-based lube. From beginner sets and vibrating plugs to metal, glass, tail and jewel styles, explore the tiles below to find a safe, comfortable fit.

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A Beginners Guide to Butt Plugs

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Butt Plugs FAQs

Which butt plug is best for beginners?

Choose a slim, tapered plug with a flared base and smooth silicone finish. Start with plenty of water-based lube and go slowly.

What size should I choose?

Beginners usually start with a small plug (under 1 inch diameter). Move up gradually as your comfort increases.

Are metal plugs safe?

Yes—stainless steel plugs are body-safe and great for temperature play. Always choose a flared base and use water-based lube.

How do I clean a butt plug?

Wash before and after use with warm water and mild soap, or a toy cleaner. For silicone or steel (non-motorized), you can also boil for deep clean.

How to choose your first Butt Plug

  • Start small: beginners usually begin under 1" diameter, then size up gradually.

  • Safety first: always pick a flared base so the plug stays comfortably in place.

  • Best materials: medical-grade silicone (soft, flexible) or stainless steel (smooth, great for temperature play).

  • Lube matters: use water-based lubricant; reapply as needed.

  • Go slow: insert with lube, breathe, and listen to your body; short sessions are best at first.

  • Clean properly: warm water + mild soap or toy cleaner; non-motorized silicone/steel can be boiled for a deep clean.