Strap-On & Harness Kits

Discover couples’ strap-on kits, harness sets, and shared play essentials designed to bring you closer — and spice things up.

Strap-on and harness kits are the ultimate way for couples to explore new sensations and dynamics together. Whether you’re curious about pegging, role reversal, or simply want to switch things up, a strap-on kit gives you everything you need — from a comfortable, adjustable harness to a perfectly matched dildo or attachment.

Each kit is made with body-safe materials, and many are compatible with your favourite Strap-On Dildos or other Couples Sex Toys for endless versatility. Choose from beginner-friendly soft harnesses to premium, leather-bound designs built for secure, confident play.

For our full range of compatible attachments, visit our Strap-On Dildos Collection.

Beginners Guide To Couples Sex Toys

How to Choose the Perfect Strap-On Harness Kit

Finding your perfect strap-on setup depends on comfort, control, and connection.

  • Beginners: Start with a soft, adjustable harness paired with a small or medium dildo. These offer stability while you get used to the motion and fit.
  • Intermediate users: Explore dual harnesses or vac-u-lock systems for more variety and a snug, secure feel.
  • Advanced couples: Leather harnesses or premium silicone kits offer durability and elevated control during play.

Most harnesses are unisex and body-inclusive, meaning they can be comfortably worn by any partner. Remember, communication is key — explore together, check in often, and keep the experience fun and playful.

For more guidance, read our Complete Guide to Dildos or browse Couples Vibrators to find complementary toys for foreplay.

Strap-On & Harness Kits FAQs

Q1: What comes in a strap-on harness kit?

Most kits include a harness and one or more compatible dildos. Some also include adjustable rings, O-rings, or suction attachments for use with different toy sizes.

Q2: Can anyone wear a strap-on?

Yes! Harnesses are designed to fit a wide range of body types and genders. Look for adjustable or elastic waistbands for comfort.

Q3: What’s the best strap-on kit for beginners?

Soft, fabric harnesses paired with smaller silicone dildos are ideal for first-timers. They’re comfortable and easy to control.

Q4: Are strap-on harness kits safe?

Absolutely. Choose harnesses made from quality materials like leather or neoprene and use body-safe silicone dildos. Clean both parts thoroughly after each use.